sure the lady next to you on the train had really bad body odor but we don’t know her story to judge her. the heavily bearded man walking down the street had liquor on his breath but we don’t know his story to judge him. we don’t plain & simple. we don’t. for letting people know that we don’t have the right to judge anyone based on who they love, who they want to come home to at the end of the day, who they want keeping them warm, who they want holding their hand, who they want making them laugh because if we did we’d all be judging our friends & family.

i’m constantly adjusting my judge-o-meter so that it is in the off position. i mean, what if someone walks in my house right now. their judge-o-meter would be going off like crazy if they had it on. ugh. i see this kind of thing all the time. it always breaks my heart.